Your analogy of iimproving skills and ability is wrong. So many woman choose men of low humanity and skill level all the time. That should show you the animal instinct and confideonce is key. Also women are being conditioNed by a few individuals in colleges and high school that males are in a rape mindset. These schools and these individuals should be shut down. Rape is a horrible crime and men should be taught to listen to the person they are wanting sex with, but you will always have a few depraved individuals so be careful. . The animals, both males and females, rape because it is control and power exersion. Nothing to do with love. So whatever is behind making women think every approach is potential rape is causing young men to not even try. Ladies, 95% of men are willing to take a polite no.