Mary you just missed the point. I said I agree with your perspective. You never mention the words orgasm and there are many studies that suggest how beneficial it is for a man and his prostate or a woman with her mental health. Have you read or studied the Tao of Sexual health which shows men how it's possible to orgasm without ejaculation from the tip but into the bloodstream? You treated something that with a little research could have been awesome like you were talking to Quakers. I don't ever comment like this to others ever. I just know how well you can write. I am sorry if I hurt any feelings. I would have passed this along privately if I could have.