I love this article and I truly believe that the government should mandate a 3 month separation every 7 years to see if you and your spouse really love one another. The costs of services of domestic disputes, anger born illnesses, stress born etc are huge tolls on our lives. I may not be perfect is a line that both my wife and I accept and love each other despite the things rattling around in our heads. I catch her when she is losing it now instead of confronting her. She just wants to be loved and held.