I am a handsome man to 50% of the women I approach in a club. It's better than zero and it's been my experience so I highlight the best part. I know if I frown, I don't get a response but if I smile and I am genuine with it, I get a positive reaction 75% of the time. I'll take that too.

One night at a local dance club I did an experiment. I love hair and I appreciate when women take care to have strong manes that are well-maintained. I also do not like wigs so this experiment takes care of two birds with one stone.

I was going up to women with gorgeous hair, looking them in the eyes and then at their hair and telling them how beautiful it is. I would actually gawk at their hair with a big smile.

Women who take the time to get their hair, perfect love it being complimented and touched.

That's the second part. After they say thank you and toss it a bit, I ask if I can touch it and pull it. The second part sends a spark through their eyes. A positive one. 100% of the women who react positively to my words allow me to touch and pull their hair.

Being single was a lot of fun in my 40s. My wife loves her hair being pulled. I wouldn't have it any other way.