Awesome. I love this article, and it is true what you say so I will now comment on the men in long-term relationships who are good-looking, have a large member, have amazing game or intelligence, or a combination of all these things. Before you let your balls lead you, do these things:

1. Close your eyes and see your wife or partner discovering your betrayal. Make no excuses about it, if you fool around with other women, she will know and find out. If you find yourself up close and personal with clothes still on, you will smell like her. Expensive perfumes lightly applied leave a scent. A woman's natural scent travels far and wide. Your lady will know it is not hers. Like a contact report the KGB or CIA had to submit if they met one another, you need to tell your wife about it.

2. Be honest. If you're committed to a strong relationship with your wife, communicate your disinterest clearly and kindly. Let the other person know why you're not available. Your honesty will not only prevent misunderstandings but also build trust and respect in your friendship. Yes, having a platonic female friend at work or on the same commute is possible. If she pushes too far or you find yourself out with her too often for Thursday after-work drinks with no one else, walk away.

Disciplining yourself is hard but worth it in the long run. Just remember the 15 minutes of pure lust (average lasting male sex time) is not worth the bending over your wife's lawyer will give you for years without any lube.